Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Listening to women and more convo skills

If you like to blab on and on, restrict yourself a bit. It's better to listen then to be all excited and spill your life's story to girls you just met. Stay a bit mysterious but not annoyingly concealed. Listen to what is being said but stay in control of the conversation by asking questions and stuff like that. Take the time when you are listening to think of a good subject to talk or ask questions about - or a witty response to what is being said. Make sure the topic isn't stupid or boring, talk in the others interest. Before you say something or start on a topic, imagine what you are going to be talking about would be recorded and shown on tv or something like that...is it REALLY worth talking about and cool? or is it boring, pointless and embarrassing. Speak quite slow and with emphasis like its very important.

Pull this all off with minimal pause, don't sit there thinking for 5 seconds between exchanges or questions.. it needs to be bang on right away, and this comes with practice . Good luck playas, get your dates and lays.

C.M.
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15 comments:

  1. kkazzammFebruary 17, 2011 at 5:57 AM

    somehow or another in my old age I have become a rambler. I used to be the closed mouth type and now I just ramble and ramble (see I am doing it now) of course I'm married so I dont need to attract attention now :P

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  2. Electric AddictFebruary 17, 2011 at 8:37 AM

    That's the hardest part right? Being superman and that sensitive guy all in one package lol. Knowing when to play what cards.

    Supporting :)

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  3. graceFebruary 17, 2011 at 12:48 PM

    its always good to read fresh advice

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  4. JordanFebruary 17, 2011 at 2:18 PM

    a lot of times talking to a girl is like talking to a rock

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  5. ZakkFebruary 17, 2011 at 3:58 PM

    Great stuff :)

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  6. Candlej-February 17, 2011 at 5:45 PM

    and dont be Mr nice guy, dont be afraid to throw some mild jabs so they feel they gotta work a little to impress you... good post man, and thats a hot chick!

    http://randomramblingggg.blogspot.com/

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  7. kkazzammFebruary 17, 2011 at 9:05 PM

    OI! I gotta remember your blog isnt so safe for work :D

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  8. ootoriFebruary 17, 2011 at 9:22 PM

    I can only listen to girls until my brain explodes haha

    http://ipiliviensomewhere.blogspot.com/

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  9. HavueleteFebruary 18, 2011 at 2:29 AM

    it's hard because you always have to balance to get her attention.
    nice advices!

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  10. elexerdelexFebruary 18, 2011 at 10:08 AM

    Keep up the tips :D

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  11. JMchiefFebruary 18, 2011 at 10:25 PM

    Great stuff!

    following and supporting

    http://jmchief93elite.blogspot.com

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  12. Das Auto!February 18, 2011 at 11:19 PM

    i usually just don't listen at all. i'll repeat back key points like "you didn't like the store?" just to give the impression that i'm listening, but i actually couldn't give less of a fuck

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  13. MeFebruary 19, 2011 at 1:36 AM

    i gotta work on this.

    don't say too much or too little

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  14. Hom DiddlyFebruary 22, 2011 at 12:54 AM

    I have learnt this over the last few years, I used to talk way too much, especially if I was nervous, and I realised it was a bit of a turn off. Now I let the girls talk about themselves and they love it!

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  15. Grinds my GearsFebruary 23, 2011 at 9:30 PM

    Good tips.
    Following.

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