Thursday, January 20, 2011

A note on texting

Texting has become the most used form of communication nowadays so you gotta know what your doing. BBM (blackberry messenger) is excellent to talk to girls with, its instant, it takes away the girls nervousness that calling brings and you can tell if they read your message =P, consider getting a blackberry simply for this, it opens a social network and if someone wont give you a number, they'll probably give you their BBM.

When messaging, be short and to the point. Tell the girl what you want, be confident. Dont be bitchmade / uberrespectful. ex. "Maybe if you would like to come you could try" type of shit. Thats a wimp talking, try this = "You should come out, I need a lady to cuddle with later" still somewhat innocent but you getting the point across. (also depends on how much the girl is feelin you and what kind of a vibe you gave off when you met her).

A huge point in all this is PATIENCE. Dont be talking your ass off, if you say something you wait for her reply no matter how long it takes, if it never comes she wasn't feelin you and you go get another girl. Dont waste your time asking a million questions, tell her what you want and she'll either do it or she won't.

Dont change plans for a girl. If you say come meet me here and she instead says go meet here there, dont budge, tell her nevermind then. Stay in charge and wait it out, she'll come and you will gain respect, chances are you lose it if you go. (Obviously if you live in sum shit apartment n she got a fat house n hot tub get your ass over there)

A good sign is when girls start texting you first after receiving a number, this means they are interested and your game plan is workin out for you ;), if you are at this point keep doin what your doing.

C.M.

18 comments:

  1. i feel sorry for the brahs who dont know this stuff already


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  2. There is some truth in here dude!...

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  3. lol @ don't change plans for a girl.

    what is this girl is a 10/10?

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  4. Wow, your stuff is always very educational. I like that you sound like you know what you're doing. Everyone needs to listen to this guy.

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  5. @ watchman, its a way for them to test you. which is also what I will be writing the next segment on. Dont fall in the trap lol. If you are under her control which you basically then are, she wont respect you and probably won't hook up with you anyway.

    C.M.

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  6. take it from a married guy here ...
    all women are money leeches :/
    knock off a bank and keep the money hidden from her so she doesnt spend it all but so you can treat em right

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  7. Solid advice, following!

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  8. Hahaha no BBM thing is my country :)

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  9. Great advice as always dude

    its all about finding a good middle ground, but more importantly a middle ground of what your specific girl likes

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  10. Good stuff, but new most of this stuff already ;)

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  11. lol :D

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  12. Good advice, never overtext, and never seem that interested. Women like the chase.

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  13. A lot of this applies to things in general.

    Overtexting is just tacky; and being straight to the point always earns more respect from people than beating around the bush.

    As always, informative.

    -K of http://social-intelligence.blogspot.com

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